Ya prolly wanna figure it out yerselves. If ya put too much pressure on gettin' it workin' one way or another, yer not gonna have much fun.

[ And that's the goal, obviously. ]

Not always! If ya setup a scene where the M fights back fer a bit, that'd work out fine. Some people who're inta takin' it only like ta give it when it feels earned, ya know? Ain't just a matter of layin' back like a fish an' takin' it.